BASH: Certificate Generator


To go green, this time, we decided to avoid printed certificates for department conference. And from there, came this concept.

Input: Certificate template, NAME, COLLEGE and EMAIL IDs of participants
Output: Generates certificates for each participant, and mails it to them.


  1. Generate NAME, COLLEGE and EMAIL list of participants.
  2. Place NAME, COLLEGE (text) on the certificate template (image) starting at given pixel coordinates.
  3. Fire an email client with EMAIL in to: and addressing NAME in body. I would recommend setting it to manually click send instead of automating it – little time consuming, but I suspect quick, automatic mailing to multiple email IDs may cause provider to blacklist you as a spammer.

Sample implementation

Here is how I implemented it – our conference had 85 participants. I used BASH, imagemagick and Thunderbird to achieve the target.

Reason I Chose:

  1. BASH – cut the codes short to less than 10 lines compared to Java/MATLAB which has its own advantages, but not worth the time.
  2. Thunderbird – Was already installed and configured to my taste and had
  3. convert – I’m on Linux Mint and it’s preinstalled.


  1. Any flavour of Linux
  2. “convert” from package imagemagick.
  3. Thunderbird configured with the right email ID.
  4. Certificate template in any common image format.
  5. A file named NameList.txt with NAME, COLLEGE, EMAIL  in one line each. File would look like:

Sample Code

cd Certificates
while read NAME; do
   read COLLEGE
   read MAIL
   convert ../Certificate.png -gravity North -pointsize 20 -annotate +100+318 "$NAME" Certificate.png
   convert Certificate.png -gravity North -pointsize 20 -annotate -200+345 "$COLLEGE" Certificate.png
   thunderbird -compose "from='',subject='Conference Certificate',to='$MAIL',attachment='~/CGAM/Certificates/Certificate.png',format='html',body='Dear $NAME,<br/><br/>&emsp;Please find the certificate attached.<br/><br/>Regards<br/>Organising Secretary'"
done < "$FILE"

This code generates a temporary certificate in the folder Certificates notice that parameter “-annotate +100+318” in line 6 give s x and y coordinates of beginning of NAME text, and similarly in line 7 for COLLEGE text.

Certificate template is placed in the same folder as the script, called Certificate.png. Generated certificates will be placed in subfolder Certificates in  a temporary file “Certificate.png”.


  • Leave thunderbird closed while running the script else the script fails. (Script will not wait for mail to be send before generating next mail).
  • It’s imperfect enough, if interested, please make a better, neater, simpler app (I am lazy to! :D) so that the world can run it in few clicks.
  • Instead of thuderbird, you can automate mailing using command line utilities like “mail” or “msmtp” etc. Read more here.

Why did I post this stupid code/idea here? I don’t know – what if it helps someone, somewhere in future? I couldn’t find a neat app which does the same online, either! I will try inspire my students to take it up as a personal project and come up with some neat click-to-do codes as well.


The Pillars of Teaching

Here is a quick review of my teaching experiment so far:


  1. Motivate students to train themselves to learn from the textbook directly
    Students are encouraged to bring textbooks to class and refer to it while session. It helps them get used to the author and learning by themselves, equipping them to learn in future.

    1. Implementation: Students are requested to refer to the textbook along with discussion in class, so that they get used to the language of textbook author. Bright lot is guided personally to read other textbooks (since notational difference across books might cause confusion to many students)
  2. Divide, conquer and combine
    Class is divided into teams, and starts with  group discussion of concepts for the session, during which I personally go and explain the concepts each group. Then the discussion is wound up with a quick discussion to the whole class.

    1. Implementation: Groups are divided carefully, assuring that there is at least one capable of explaining and taking the discussion forward. One or two groups will be exceptionally good, motivating others to try catch up with them (risky, yet, found it working in both the classes).
  3. Mild future references, before the topic is introduced (Inductive and Deductive Learning)
    Words and concepts that will appear in future are mildly referenced in related contexts in previous classes – helps concrete keywords and generate curiosity.

    1. Implementation: For example, idea of sequences were introduced while teaching counting of countable union of countable sets – using the sequence 2,3,3,4,4,4,…. Extra exercises towards the end refers to next section before closing the chapter, attempting to generate curiosity to explore the next section.
  4. Sequential Learning
    Instead of introducing topics in one shot, it is sequentially introduced,periodically. For example, idea of limits were introduced, and explanation was done a week later, and deeper explanation will come in upcoming weeks. Instead of clouding them with a lot of information one day, it is delivered partially, over time.

    1. Implementation: Lessons are planned in ahead, at present, for at least two weeks.
  5. Convince students to write notes themselves
    Helps them organise and write the concepts themselves, trains them to write better answers.

    1. Implementation: For PG students, instead of giving the whole notes, only the questions and outline of answer, like keywords are given. At present, below average students struggle with this, and haven’t had an opportunity to reach them out personally or devised any other techniques to reach them. Also, it takes time to train students who are not used to generating content themselves – possibly they will be set by 2nd CA.
      For UG, notes are given and are encouraged to work on exercises themselves, and also rewrite the given notes in a different way.
  6. Change their outlook about exams
    Portray exams more like a “self evaluation tool”, rather than writing it out of fear to score more for grades/public approval.

    1. Implementation: Unit revision tests were conducted in the pattern they requested – open book test. But voluntary choice was given to students to avoid textbook, and write it as a normal test – and most of the students chose the latter, voluntarily.
  7. Demand and partially force them to prepare for class in ahead and come
    Notes or portions in textbook for next session is passed on in advance, and students are requested to prepare and come. The days they come prepare classes are exponentially better.

    1. Implementation: Prerequisites are posted at least a day before. References are made during class to content included exclusively in posted prerequisites, motivating students to read prerequisites in future. Haven’t figured out how to motivate majority of the class to come prepared, for now, there is response only from 20-30% in UG and 10-20% in PG.
  8. Incorporate technology, and introduce advanced mathematical tools
    Aim is to introduce mathematical tools available and possibly, encourage students to get versed with it.

    1. Implementation: Simpler tools and mathematical computational tools are used in class to solve problems/illustrate concepts, and students are encouraged to try it themselves.
      Students who approach personally are given guidance to explore known mathematical packages and how to use programming to help learning etc.
      Other possible avenues need to be explored.
  9. Engage with students in co-curricular activities outside class.
    Involve students in out-of-the-classroom researches, studies and activities, that will help them communicate, write mathematics themselves, that boosts their resume.

    1. Implementation: 1. Mini-Research
      2. Programming to learn mathematics/how programming can ease day to day business
      3. The book project
      4. Coaching and discussion in subjects
      5. Other secret projects involving students
      6. Convince and prep students for research under others
      (More being explored)
  10. Method varies with subject
    1. Past techniques
      1. Old school, blackboard – chalk teaching (slow writing speeds was a personal disadvantage and caused loss of student attention).
      2. Projector (Couldn’t grab attention of the whole class).
      3. Projector and printed notes (More effective for subjects like Mechanics, Java).
      4. Partial projector and derivations on board (Real Analysis).
    2. Present techniques:
      1. Projector, Textbook, WhiteBoard for illustrations (Graph Algorithms),
      2. Projector, Textbook, Printed Notes, Black Board for illustrations and explanations (Advanced Calculus),
      3. Activity Based Learning – using Projector, Textbook (Java).

Personal Life

  1. Availability to students
  2. Approachability
  3. Moral bonding
    1. Love them
    2. Trust them
  4. (Possible future) Make students call me by name. Haven’t figured out the ups and downs of it, but will reach that point eventually.
  5. Motivate students to aim higher challenges, and be available for them, at any level.
  6. Life needs to exist outside this puzzle of teaching. Need to find other engagements to distract myself from mathematics on non-teaching days.
  7. Teaching and preps needs to be restricted to be working hours.
  8. Break down and rebuild perspective about Christianity.
  9. Surprise a person a month.
  10. Dedicate a share of monthly income for students
  11. Minimise general expenses.

Professional Advancement

  1. Widen the net of subject knowledge, explore mathematics in natural subjects.
  2. Learn how streams of mathematics were born, inspiration for each stream, triggering moment.
  3. Implementation of other subject concepts using programming.
  4. History of science and mathematics.
  5. Research and publication of papers.
  6. More thoughts and efforts needs to be put into this.

Just writing them down to organise my thoughts so far. Will expand them in course of time!



  1. Being approachable to more students – now, only ones who respond are being welcomed to conversations.
  2. Encourage students to encourage mutually to aim higher.


Start doing something solid!


  1. Sharpen current methods.
  2. Make methods reach more students.


When life give you lemons…

A friend just posted this as her WhatsApp status:

When life gives you lemon, make lemon tarts – foodie

Such a big lie by an extreme optimistic foodie!

I just wanted some junk to start writing with. It’s been ages since I poured my heart out here and I am sure at the end of the day, this is one of the best thing that happened to me – the blog (which got deleted, again and again).

What’s been happening with me? I got a job, which is not trivial according to society. I am at the onset of my missions, drawing war plans. I’m teaching. I realise that students are the best things that happened ot me and are turning out to be my best friends. I love them, love them all, and that kept me away from this blog all these days! A bit less of love to them, a boring class, a word of correction to them, would disappoint me just too bad – and I took all the effort from my side to not let that happen.

I attended Haggai Institute National Conference, too! That consolidated quite a lot of things God’s been talking to me and much more.

First semester was not perfect – but I think I did a good job. These are the scales I tried to implement:

  1. Be approachable to the students.
  2. Love them, more like fatherly love and not be mistaken.
  3. Devise my own teaching method.
  4. Venture into encouraging students to explore textbooks themselves, and out of textbook, taking it to the next level.
  5. Make friends.
  6. Bring in technology – and make the best of it in classroom and outside.

I am glad to say it’s been a great pleasure chasing these dreams. And satisfying, too! Quite some learning, and in grounds of moral, academic and general interest, these are my aims for the next semester:

  1. Trust the students, and understand the right perspective of trust I must use – like how God trusts me, even knowing I am all determined to misuse the trust.
  2. Encourage them to not stop with textbook, but venture beyond that, to make an impact.
  3. Be prepared with classes well in ahead – a week’s portions to be prepared the week before.
  4. Convince students to take higher steps, aspire higher in studies and life.
  5. Help them, convince them to try get clarity on life, on what to do next and help them in preparing to achieve their dreams.
  6. Finish the book project.
  7. With an evil intention – cultivate an interest in astronomy among students. The intention being revival of department telescope.
  8. Spare a good share of my income at the moment for students, to enable them, to help them in need and to give supplements for study.
  9. Finish planning and start the new mission strategy.
  10. Go home, more often.

That’s a long list already I think. Will expand it in course of time, if necessary. Onward ho! The battle countdown has begun, it’s due to start next week!

Apart from that – marriage is a recurring thought off late – not that I want to get married now, ideally, I would love to meet the lady of my life sometime around now, and get to know her better.

Eagerly waiting for December!

The other best thing in my life are my pen friends. I don’t know – there’s a lot of uncertainty about them that adds to the beauty of relationship – in fact, you just have one short mail a week, and you got to tell all that’s needed to be said that you tend to say only things that matter – unlike other friendships in person. And the wait is uncertain – you don’t know when you will get a mail or even if you will ever get a mail!

Darn. I must write back to them all soon. Time’s been ticking and job kept me busy, and I lost track of it.

I’ll kill my random rumblings here.

Ciao. Hope to write soon again!

P.S. I will be all hyper about this post and delete it very soon, the way I usually do it.

House MD: a Gift Idea

A new doctor in friendlist! I didn’t feel like stopping at a mere congratulation, this is a rare event I must celebrate!

But what will I gift her?

A fake “ID” card? Fake prescription template? But what will make them unique?

That’s when my friend, kutti doctor’s sister called her “Lady Greg House”. I had no clue who it was, Google gave me Dr. Greg House from House M.D. Eureka.

That was followed by marathon House MD Season 1, thanks to Christy Varghese.

Then this happened.

ID Card
Front: Plainsboro ID card
Front: Plainsboro ID card
Back: Plainsboro ID card
Back: Plainsboro ID card

I played a bit with bar code and ID number – both translates to “Kutti Doctor”, what I call her. Barcodes can be generated for free online, for example, (choose Code-39 for text codes). For ID number, I used same idea as Facebook’s 92FACEBOOK number (typing in a T9 keypad gives their phone number, 9232232665), for the same text. Each item is in a different layer in RAW XCF file, or if you are not a pro, just use the images in this post (are of fairly good resolution for and ID card – actual sizes are 1/4th of what is there in image).

Prescription Model, Concept from House MD
Prescription: Size: 1/2 A4

It had to be a bit “Indianised”, specially prescription, moving away from small square chit in House MD. (The prescription is shown in one of the episodes when elderly lady comes to return the prescription to House). There are two pages in file – print it as two pages in one page A4 for correct dimensions.

The paper folder
Folder and Prescription Printed

Now instead of binding the prescription papers, I made a folder, when folded, will give you half A4 size. I hope you will figure out where to fold/cut and stick. Also, little care should be taken to make sure that the prescription papers fit into the folder well before sticking. I also cut it along the border on top and it looked better than a square folder.


You are free to use it as you wish. The logo of Princeton Placeboro et al should be the copyright of studios making House MD, so please don’t use it for mass printing. Raw files are in GIMP’s xcf format (I use GIMP), I can convert it for you if you want (leave a comment below). I’d be glad if you leave a word here in comments if you used the template, it’s really encouraging to know that it came to use for someone!

Raw Files:

Check out Google Drive Folder

A Dark, Disabling Secret

[this is an extract from a mail to my pen friend]

Dear Lipsa,

I woke up today morning ready to reply to your mail. Then something that happened here invoked the biggest insecurity in me, distracting me for a while.

I am at a friend’s place and in morning, his mom prayed that “There are many with disabled children, thank you God for giving us healthy children”. I won’t blame her – it’s a common thing that nearly everyone thanks God for though I logically disagree with the idea of “thanking God for some harm that never happened to [me]”.

As I have told you, I am partly disabled. The first thing that ran in my mind is if my mother will be able to say the same. How hurt she would have been if she heard someone pray like that the days she was still syncing in to the fact that I am partially blind. I don’t know if my friend read my mind – he intervened then and there and told her not to do it.

My disability is one of my deepest insecurities, which I am in a constant struggle to overcome. I fear it. Subconsciously my eyes tear up when I am requested to explain why and how I became almost blind in one eye, things I can’t do because of it etc. The attempt to overcome it so far were all futile.

It’s deep-rooted, and that makes it a hard thing to get rid of. I’ve been called “kannu pottan (blind)”, “cyclops” (Greek mythological giants with one eye) many times while I was in school, though it was for fun, it did hurt me. You might understand why I cried when the person who stood up for me that day and told them not to do it passed away two years back. He was and is always a hero in my eyes.

On a bright side, I realised calling a weak person “dumb”, as everyone does in our society is actually also referring a real deaf and dumb person as weakling. I have been, ever since the revelation trying to stop using such words in my day today conversations.

The only thing that helped me a bit so far is looking at the bright side of it – how it helped me develop some of my good skills, and understand the need of someone who might not have had any exposure to encouragement much as me or those who have much higher disadvantages than me.

While in proVISION ASIA, even in most of them who claimed to have overcome this fear seemed to hide this inmost fear, insecurity in them, which popped up at times.

I must actively start hunting this insecurity down now I think – I want to root out it’s origins!

I hope I am not boring you – this is something you’d notice in almost every disabled person’s eyes the next time you see them, though they may sound confident enough to conquer the world.

It helps a lot to speak up about one’s fear. In fact, I think this is the first step towards conquering it.

[and some more content, irrelevant to the topic of this post].

Write soon!

Jesse P Francis

The Book List

This is more like a diary for myself, list of books I’ve read (and I remember that I’ve read it, only good ones)

  1. If only they could talk – James Herriot (2014)
  2. Dork – Sidin Vadakut (2012)
  3. Service with a Simle – Wodehouse (2016)
  4. That novel about attempted NASA Rocket launch mishap that I got from trash, returned to trash (I don’t remember it’s name!) (2012)
  5. 1984 – George Orwell (2017)
  6. The Bible – A lot of people (2014-2016)
  7. To Sir, with Love – E. R. Braithwaite (2015)
  8. The Alchemist – Paulo Cohelo (2016)
  9. The Purpose Driven Life – Rick Warren (2014)
  10. The Cross and the Switchblade – David Wilkerson
  11. The Jungle Book – Rudyard Kipling (2017)
  12. In His Steps – Charles M. Sheldon (2015)
  13. Back to Jerusalem – Paul Hattaway (2015)


  1. Almost All Basheer (2000 – 2010)
  2. Randamoozham (Sometime between 2002 – 2006)
  3. Malavikaagnimithram – Kaalidasan

(will keep expanding the list as I remember)

Recipe for a tasty PhD Scholar


Step 1: Talk to a gentleman who agrees to be your guide. He, before prescribing the text, tells you to pray, early morning, and promises that he will too, without fail.
Step 2: See how God is convincing your to work under him.
Step 3: Read a lot about your subject and sensitise yourself.
Step 4: Reject even better PhD offers at hand, since you don’t want to miss the gentleman who is praying for you.
Step 5: Get gifted with crazy big things which are absolute essential for the PhD work, as a “go-ahead” confirmation from God.
Step 6: Something in you tells you to hold the application submission a day more.
Step 7: Write “NET Qualified” just because you submitted the application late (the result came the evening before – assuring God is really up to something cool with your PhD.)
Step 8: Submit application.


Step 1: Get called for an interview as a teacher.
Step 2: Travel nearly 590 kilometres for an interview.
Step 3: Reach less than a kilometre away from the office.
Step 4: Bulb moment.
Step 5: Call up office and tell them you’re not coming for the interview, and start back home.
Step 6: Life goes on, as if nothing happened!
Result: Tasty PhD scholar thayyar!


Step 1: Trust God better. When He’s with you, nothing better assures that life will be (good) dramatic and happening enough!

I’m 25 and I’m constantly reminded about it.

Sister: “Da, what do you think about that girl”
Me: “I don’t think much about that girl”
Sister strikes again: “This girl?”
Me: “Why should I be thinking about girls now?”
Sister: “Just asked, don’t worry!”
Me: “Don’t ask, don’t worry! When it’s time, I’ll tell you!”

This kept happening, almost everyday I was there in Chennai.

“Do come – it’s my marriage, and I haven’t met you since school days!”

As if he did not have any other reason to call me, out of the blue, after almost 10 years!

“Da, I want to write one more book soon. Well, at least for my matrimony profile! The pressure to get settled is mounting up in my family”
Me: “If it helps you get married fast, I am with you!”

The next one:

“They say I must get married this year!”
Me: “Just had that conversation with someone in the morning! Why does all conversations end up in marriage today?”

At church:

Random uncle: “What are you doing now a days?”
Me: “Looking ahead for research”
Random uncle strikes again: “Research? How long will that course take?”
Me, having figured out where the conversation is heading: “3-4 years, minimum?”
Random uncle: “Oh, okay” (could read that disappointment on his face)

And then I text that random woman from contact list:

Me: How’s life?
“I got married last week”
Me: Woah! The right day to get in touch I think! Congratulations!!!

Wish that ended there!

“Da, does the family not pressurise you to get married?”
Me: “Well, they know I have given them a no-go notice till I’m 29, and mature enough to get married!”

No, that’s not the end!

Me: Will surely pray for the thing you told me!
“Then what should I pray about, for you? That you find a girl soon?”
Me: Well, give it some more time! Must I not learn some cooking before get married? Give me two to three years! I’m a slow learner!
“Cooking? Why?”
Me: Don’t you woman like to take break from kitchen once in a while?
“Which planet are you from?”

Well, I hope I’ll not have a nightmare about getting married tonight!

You might have figured out why I named the post “I’m 25 and I’m constantly reminded about it.”

The Donkey Ears

The sky must fall down soon. Else it will rain here, and I scarcely have any space for myself to let it rain.

Love is in the air.

There’s tonnes of steel left to sell. All the fire that was there went out. How will I melt them, and let them flow to the buyer?

A phone with a cracked bone.

The new, shiny laptop awaiting Kernel 4.10. A malt based drink did not help it much.

The eagle, the other day, was gossiping to the sky, and said,”That boy, you see – thinks we are gossiping about him!”


Grapes must be the fruit of the kings. It’s easier to throw them than guavas.

Happiness is sneezing.

The world is sick and tired of me. I must burn the earth, said the sun.

I stink. Said the waters.

Love is sinking in the water.

Love is in the malt-based drinks too.

Beef, fish or paneer fry?

Flavoured houseflies flies around the files.

Pricey by choice.

Must. Get. Back. To. Work.

(The language is called gibberish. Wonder what force in the nature made you read till here.)

Travelogue: Madurai, a City Worth Falling in Love with!

“All of them man! All of them!” The lady was literally at the top of her voice. The topic was “mallus”, in a congregation of five in the food court of “the only mall” in Madurai. It was a confusing, confused bunch – Emma, Dinesh and me had come to meet Jo and a friend of hers who works in Chennai. Dinesh didn’t know Jo, and that friend of hers didn’t know anyone of us than Jo.

It’s just been three hours since I reached Madurai, and of course, even if we don’t move around much, the thing with Emma is that we can just sit at some place and talk or debate forever. But moving around added spices to it, making us non-Madurites (Dinesh, from Andra and me, a mallu) and Emma, the Madurite fall in love with the city for the first time!

Jo was also a Madurite, Emma’s mom’s colleague’s daughter. Talking about Madurai, almost every bit of my Madurai bond revolves around the Lady Doak College, and the staff there,  and their kids. All close to my heart, even if we haven’t talked for a very very long time. Jo’s friend was a Telugu, from Hyderabad, where I was supposed to be in instead of Madurai that day, but I decided to betray Christy for Nithya, whose marriage reception I had come to attend.

Back to the mall. The conversation started with the dear unknown friend of Jo’s asking “any religious religious guys here?” Jo knew where she’s getting to, turned and looked at me immediately. Emma followed her league. Dinesh was busy watching the film song in the big screen behind us. She got the hint, finished religious jokes off in a comment or two, not to invite a judgemental religious guy’s wrath. Well, I’m a Christian, one trying to be not of the kind she expected me to be.

I was about to thank God, and I even asked her if she’s just looking for a bakra (Hindi for scapegoat), obviously Emma, who acted well as an illiterate in Hindi asked for its meaning and made himself the bakra. The conversation evolved from Hindi to Hyderabad, Hyderabad to Chennai, Chennai to Tamil, Tamil to Pondicherry University (the factor connecting us all – we all studied there though in different years), PU to mallus. One who seemed to be an adherent evolutionist defied all laws of evolution at that point and forcibly denied every attempt of the conversation to evolve itself.

“Judgemental man! I do this, and this mallu girl comes and tells me that!”

“I can’t stand them – the other day, I won’t tell the name no, Jo, because he might know her! So the other day, I was …”

“They should just mind their own business OK!”

“The other day, after an interview, that mallu girl comes and tells me I might have got selected because I’m fairer! What rubbish!”

“Mallus and Bengalis have this thing between them no?”

And once in a while, I kept hearing, “All of them man, all of them!”

And it kept on coming. Most part of it, I was silent. I tried to imagine all the mallus she might have had the chance to meet till date. Oh, a horrible bunch it should have been. Well, I won’t blame her, if that’s the way mallus that caught her attention treated her in past. She’s got all right to generalise it.

Well, there was something else that bothered me. I’m a mallu. Do I fit in any of her description of mallus? I think I do to some extend, but I was too lazy to think deep into it – and I will leave that hardwork to you.

But my thoughts refused to stop evolving, unlike the conversation. I was tempted to ask myself, “What about the Telugus I know of?” The prominent names that came to my mind were Dinesh and Laxman, and they happened to be two of the nicest people I’ve ever seen.

I have been in middle of mallu jokes before, and why, even Emma sitting next to me is famous (and infamous among many) for his humanist jokes (he takes on the whole human race, part by part, disqualifying his jokes from being a racist) – and that’s a connecting factor between us, because I enjoy every bit of conversation with him. If Grace graces the occasion with her presence, it would create few sweet memories and laughs you would never want to forget. But why do I feel I’m getting a little defensive here? This sounded more like a mallu hatred than mallu joke, maybe. Emma was unusually silent. The songs on big screen kept entertaining Dinesh all through the conversation.

And I was distracted soon enough. The attempt to draw symmetric patterns on my mobile screen caught my attention soon – Emma, who noticed it, tried to attract everyone’s attention to it – but the conversation soon got back to mainline after a short detour.

“But one thing I can’t deny about mallus is their films – many of them are just brilliant!” That caught my attention. At last, the conversation’s attempt to evolve seems to have succeeded.

I should have drawn a lot of patterns, found three new designs I can draw on the screen, when Jo announced that we should go grab something to eat and leave soon.

During lunch, she dragged in Trump’s victory in US elections. “Americans have lost their mind”. Well, I should have controlled myself, but I couldn’t. I, who sounded a bit insecure till then, looked up at her. In few minutes, she realised it’s worthless to debate anymore on the issue, decided to just listen to me advocate against Hilary (and not advocate that Trump is a saint), and why Hilary played bad politics and which made her deserve the lose. There was a short silence, and we decided to get back home, freshen up, go meet Nithya once before the reception, while the girls went on their way.

I loved every second there in Madurai – the marriage reception that evening, the CSI Cathedral Church service the next day, the Meenakshiamman Koil and The Thousand Pillars, the Madurai Nayikkar Palace, and most of all, Emma’s parents!

It would be an injustice not to write more about them – such wonderful people! Though we had only a limited time with them both, I had two new role models to look up to. And the food they prepared for us, the time they laughed with us, amazing would be understating it.

As I recollect all of this which happened a week back, apart from Emma’s parents, I realised one another person had made a lasting impression on me – that’s that friend of Jo’s, whose name I don’t remember. A strong, opinionated, dominant, confident woman, one of the rare I’ve ever seen in my whole life. Had there been more women like her in this world more than the so-called self proclaimed feminists driven by their insecurities rather than their strengths, the world would have been a better place. But I do hope she realises one day that not all mallus are as horrible as she described, and that in our society, we too only have much morons as we have in any other society, in one form or another. And off late I’m learning to see the gem even in the morons, with no bar for religion, caste, creed, country, state, and that has helped me be more open minded, accepting, less judgemental and a better Christian.

To wrap it up – I saw three new people win my heart over there in Madurai – two with love, like Emma’s parents, and another with a bit harsh, but elegant offence. A precious new learning, I should treasure for all of my life.

Here are some pictures, as some wise men said, the best way to hide from a picture is to be the cameraman – and it was fun being a cameraman for these two crazy souls, made to be in the frame! And you guessed it right! I have this thing for ceilings! Also, I was researching on how to make the best of Panorama shots. By the way, I look somewhat like that third guy who appears in pictures less frequently.

Almost all photos were taken with Dinesh’s Moto Z Play (16MP back, most of the ceilings were taken with the 5MP front) and a handful of them with my Moto G3 (12MP).

*Hope to add more pictures of Madurai Meenakshiamma Koil soon as I get it from Dinesh.